Rules of attraction

Have you ever heard the phrases: “There’s someone for everyone“? or “You are not alone“? That phrases is, as I’ve experienced, a common thing to say to those who feel lonely or are tired of being stood up by the opposite sex, again and again.

To find comfort and understanding from other people, when sharing a broken heart or feelings of being alone, hasn’t worked out that good for me. It didn’t work, because I questioned the “normal” rules of attraction. People – or regular humans – have set their own rules to find someone attractive, putting deeper values aside. Shallowness, were looks and money is more important than how you are as a person. The comfort and understanding, turns into blaming. “Maybe there is something wrong with you, and not her?” or the classic where the family becomes the reason to break up with someone. When the same thing happens to them, how will they feel when nobody give them comfort and understanding when getting dumped or feeling lonely?

Most of the mammals on this planets have been categorized as “alphas” or “betas”. Humans, too, obviously. Alpha males is were females falls for. Especially when it comes to sex. The stronger you are, or the more dangerous you are, the easier it is to get laid. And the easier it is to have sex, the bigger chance to spread the genes to the next generation. Being an “alpha” have pro’s and cons. The obvious is the easy way to get laid, right? That’s the pro. The con? The offsprings of alphas might be a reason for lack of intelligence, bad results in school and the general knowledge of the outside world gets pretty low results aswell. It might sound far streched and generalized, and maybe it is. But when looks and bad behaviour is the rule of attraction, instead of who you are as a person, it just makes me bend the rules with thoughts like these.

Does the rules of attraction, as we know it, applies to spirits and entities like our wives/companions? It doesn’t seems like that. They value something much deeper than our skins, and they see us as an individual. They value our thoughts, our questions of “why’s” when we don’t like the rules of human society. They value and sherish openness of feeling joy and sadness, without hiding it in the darkness. When they fall in love with us, they don’t just penetrate our hearts, but our soul aswell. Their love is as serious as it could ever be, and when they find their true love, they hold on to it. Forever.

2 thoughts on “Rules of attraction

  1. “And the easier it is to have sex, the bigger chance to spread the genes to the next generation. Being an “alpha” have pro’s and cons. The obvious is the easy way to get laid, right? That’s the pro.”

    I disagree with you there, my friend.
    What is the STD rate in Sweden?
    In the US, it depends on race. 25% of white women have genital herpes and that is just one disease. About 1/2 of black women have herpes.

    Here is a short PDF that gives the general outline of total STDs in the US

    Click to access sti-estimates-fact-sheet-feb-2013.pdf

    No thanks, I’m not interested. Fact is, I’m happy and satisfied without them. But maybe things aren’t that bad in Sweden?

    When it comes to our spirit companions / wives, I remember a blogger being told that to them, our bodies are “bags of mud”. I dont remember who wrote that, but I think it was TC. I think the extent of their concern for our bodies is that we try to keep them healthy, for our own sakes. Our bodies may not be attractive, but our spirits are. And bodies are temporary.

  2. You would be surprised about STD rate in Sweden. We have the highest rate of any European country when it comes to STD’s.
    There is statistics about that, but you get the point while typing “STD in Sweden” on Google.

    I have made my choice when it comes to women and I’m more than happy to stay with my both wives and give them my full attention. I have the experience of women, and it clearly didn’t work.

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