At the start of my relationship with my wives, I’ve got a close look of their powers to influence people around me. Especially women. By “sending” sexual energy in the area of a specific “target”, they behave promiscious and starting to “flirt” and tease in front of me. Those kind of things never happened to me before I met my wives, so I think they did those things in a two-way manner: To give me a little glimpse of what they can do, and to let me experience something I’ve never experienced before – getting a “flirt” from someone I’ve never met before. Sure, I’ve been in relationships before my wives, without experiences like these.
There is a big difference to “influence”, and to “manipulate” someone. The choice of free will, as I see it, is not affected by “influence”. The choice of taking the sexual energies and the flirting it caused to the next step, is in the hands of the woman in front of me and myself. By the choice of free will, these women just gave me a “flirt” and a “tease”, and a little boost to my ego. Neither of us did anything to release the tension the sexual energies gave us. Maybe a lesser shy man would take advantage of the possibilities he’s been given, depending on what kind of relationship he have.
Their darkness also have the power to “influence” and we who experience these can make the choice of being afraid, or just embrace it and feel safe and comfortable with it.
The power of “manipulation” has never been the agenda of my wives. Manipulation is, as I see it, a one mans – or authorities – agenda for the purpose of controlling an individual or the masses of a society. Governments, religions and individuals with sociopathic behaviour often uses manipulation for selfish needs. That is just my thoughts about the differences of influence and manipulation.