It is not just a celebration month of anniversaries of my third year with my wives. It is also my first wifes birthday today. So today it’s all about her, and I will do my best to “spoil” her with my love and affection in many ways possible.
Happy birthday, honey! I love you with all my heart and all my soul.
The emotion of “fear” can mess you up, even if the emotion itself lack any real threat to you. How come, that fear have such an impact on us, even if there isn’t any reason for it to do so? Is it because of religion? Lack of knowledge of the unknown? Warnings from others negative experiences? Is “fear” an emotional response that, instinctively, get to some of us that doesn’t know any other way to express ourself in front of something unfamiliar?
People are afraid of many things. Religious “sins”. Insects and predatory animals. Conflicts of any kind. Fictional horrors. Some people are afraid of something that they can’t explain right away, which make them come to false conclusions that the experience is “malicous” and “evil”.
That last sentence above is the most important one. As I see it, fear of the unknown, can have a “trigger effect”. Since emotions is a powerfull energetic pattern that creates a “need to get more”, fear and love is the most powerfull ones to get. Does the intent have to be “malicious” or “evil” for the emotional respons of “fear”? In my opinion: Not always. Because sometimes the exchange of the emotional energy that “fear” have, can give an “addiction” to get more of it. When the person that was afraid, suddenly flip the coin to accept the “unknown” and choses to not be afraid anymore, he or she, creates the stronger energy that is “love”. The “need to get more” flips to love, instead of fear.
A fellow blogger did an interresting post about the dangers of sharing, and I mostly agree with that. But, as I see it, there is two sides of the coin. Especially when you’ve come to a point where you have no idea of what you’re dealing with and how to deal with it. And when not knowing, fear could be a reaction. The reaction of fear can make the intent of the communication, by the spirit or entity, to get lost on the way. The result of that, could be frustration. Wouldn’t you be frustrated if you reach out to someone, in numerous ways, but the reaction of it is fear? Your intent is lost, from the reciever, that do not understand your way of communicate with that person.
I helped someone, by mailcorrespondance, to not show fear towards the succubus thats been in his life for many years. He couldn’t understand her way of trying to connect with him. After our correspondance, the fear he had is not there anymore. He actually enjoy her company, to the fullest, than on an occasional basis.
By sharing experiences, we learn from eachother. We get another point of view of something, that some of us is unfamiliar with.
I don’t say that there shouldn’t be “warnings” of certian degrees, but to have an entity or spirit in your life and not really know how to proceed, reading posts about the dangers of certian spirits or entities, creates fear and creates frustration from someone who tries to reach out.