When entering a relationship with a spirit of a sexual theme, like the spirit of a “succubus” or “incubus”, some might think that the main goal for these spirits are sex and sex only. For me, that’s not true at all. My wives sexual energy was very strong at the beginning of our relationship and after our marriage, their sexual energy changed. It is still as strong as they want it to be, towards me, but their main agenda is their love and affection they have for me. So, why have it changed so radically for me? My body isn’t working as it should be, at the moment, which cause bleedings near the “g-spot” that my wives are experts to stimulate. It’s not that uncommon of problem, though many people experience this from time to another. I even had these problems, years before I met my wives. Our sexlife is at halt, right now, but they understand and gives me love and support while my body is healing.
Like I wrote before, the word “succubus” and “incubus” was invented by religions that is very young and naive towards older beliefs of gods and goddesses before the “single God” was created by them. These spirits existed, perhaps, thousands of years before Judaism and Christianity arrived. They invented the word “succubus” and “incubus” and they connected those names to sex and the act of sex as something “negative” and “evil”, something that was forced upon us humans.
As sexual as they are – in a leage of their own – the sex becomes “secondary” the soon love blossoms, in the relationship by man and spirits. And of course, there’s more to intimacy than just sex. Intimacy is an expression of love, and sex is one form of intimacy. My wives “agenda” towards me, is love, not just sex.
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I agree
Love does seem to trump sex in our relationship to .
however i have noticed the opposite too, sometimes i feel such strong feelings of love and compassion towards them that my sexual urges towards them increase also .
That happens with me too.It seems when Sheena rubs my back nonsexually but in a loving way my body responds on its own to her touch.
Alright, true and not so. I belive it truly depends on the succubus/incubus. Just like humans, some would rather prefer a “no-obligations” relationship, while some will get serious about it. Still, it doesn’t mean they can’t fall in love. Me and my guy are in a relationship for almost 7 months, and if in the begining it was about sex, now it’s more like a “love affair”. And yes, incub are dominant characters. Also they won’t agree when their woman will go all flirty with another man. But this is something a human man won’t do eighter so, religious beliefs are just limits imposed by someone who likes to judge before meeting, rather than “The truth”.
So it seems I have spent most of my night reading Succupedia at this point and upon my readings I have stumbled across countless comments and a post about how you do not have a question panel. I do find it quite unfortunate as there are so many questions that need to be asked and can finally, hopefully, be answered. I notice most of your commenters seem to have a lover that is a succubus or there male counterpart, but what of us that do not have one? I am not asking as to how to get one, there not puppies to be adopted at a store after all, but more so if there was a day when one should appear how should those of us react? Its hard not to respond with fear to something that has been shown countless times as evil, even when you try to understand it becomes engrained in your brain that if ever the moment came that would be the first response. So in truth how should one respond to the situation and if fear is the first reaction how do you sort of fix that initial reaction you had? Whats sort of the ‘guidebook’ to interacting with one on your first meeting? (Yes, I assume treating them like a human should be the first but its always good to know.)