Experience Of Dreams

There haven’t been many dreams with my wives participation, except for the one dream I had months ago.

In this particular dream, there was a boat and on that boat were tons of cardboard boxes, stacked on top of eachother. The only available space where by the wheel and passanger seat. The boat was on it’s way to “destination unknown”, and I felt it started to move. While watching the cardboard boxes, I felt someone sitting next to me, holding me and resting her head against my shoulder. I saw her beautiful red hair and laid my hands on it, caressing it. Then I caressed her cheek and it was so warm, so soft. It was a little windy on the boat and that also reflected on her cheek with both warmth and cold. I wrapped my arm around her and then I woke up.

My first wife appeared in that dream as a support for the present and future as the cardboard boxes represent “memories of the past”. The cardboard boxes may also represent that past events is in need of closure, and my wife represent a new era of experiences. A new beginning. I really felt relieved, safe, comfort, and a deep love from her representation in that dream, which I never felt in a dream before.

I rarely remember my dreams, but there’s a few more dreams I had since my wifes became a part of my life. And I remember those dreams. One of the strangest dreams I had, where a “dream within a dream”.

I woke up when my phones alarm sounded. When I reached the phone to turn the alarm off, a lady danced in the display. Then I woke up again, by the sound of my phone, but this time it was not a dream. This “dream within a dream” where one of the weirdest dreams I had.

Dreams are fascinating and a potential road to experience the astral world, and just as important to get to know your unconscious self. I think individual development is within real life experiences, just as much within dreams. And I think those dreams remembered is of importance.

The physical touch

According to studies on infant babies on orphanage homes, the lack of physical touches is lethal and babies who doesn’t get that, wont survive for long. 

The lack of physical touches as an adult, can create distress, unsafety, depression and feeling of unimportance in the society. It can be lethal, too, creating suicidal tendencies or destruction behaviour towards others. Just keep in mind that I use the words “it can”, because the outcome is very individual.

Physical touches, like hugging, holding hands, carressing parts of the body, sex or other recognition of physical nature, is an important part of human nature. Well, it’s actually just as important for most of all lives on this planet. 

Unfortunately, physical touches of “human nature”, is not a part of my life since many years back. But my two wives give me alot of that, instead. And they know the importance of it and the dangers of not getting hugs, kisses and caresses. My wives despise one of my familymembers for that particular reason, since that person is on a dark place of blame and despair towards me and my siblings. Some grownups doesn’t cope with turnarounds in life and blame others for their own shortcommings. Some may call that paranoia or dementia, and probably it is, and it hurts to be near that person. My first wife got really mad one day and I felt her anger towards my familymember. I wouldn’t recommend anyone to feel her anger, not even that particular familymember of mine. 

Since my wives became a big part of my life, physical touches is a usual part of my life again. And they knew that, because they touch me in a way that makes me feel safe, comfort and deeply loved.

I wouldn’t know how I would feel if they weren’t with me.