The Path Of The Outcast – The Empath Perspective

Have you ever felt misunderstood by the outside world? Have you got these unlimited questions of “why’s” and “how’s” to everything bad happening in the world? Are you emotionally sensitive, and feel the emotions of others? If the answer is “yes”, then maybe you are an EMPATH. Is it a good ability to add and use in black magic? Absolutely! Let me introduce you to the world of the empath:

What Is An Empath?

Man with conceptual spiritual body art

Being an empath is the ability to seeing with the eyes of another, listening with the ears of another and feeling with the heart of another. Apply that emotional sensitiveness to spirit interaction and magical workings, and it enhances the ability by a tenfold.

Why The Empath Is Considered An “Oddity” In Black Magic

The general view of a black magician is that most of them practice magic to enhance the ego with little, or no emotional attachments to it, since it seems to have too much ethics and morality that “blocks” their ways of ascendance. That doesn’t mean a general black magician is without empathy for others, but the way they approach magic is most likely different than how an empath approach magic.

So, where lies the “oddity” of an empath versus a traditional black magician?

It’s the attachment to emotions that drives them to make a decision within their magical paths, and they usually stand by their choices firmly. Ethics and morality is what drives them. Is that a weakness? Not necessarily. Balance is the key, so the emotional investments must be threaded lightly. Tipping the scale too much, and it might not end in their favor.

What Kind Of Spirits Are For The Empath?


Spirits and deities of the Feminine Current is often considered a strong ally for the Empath Magician. Devotion, trust, making compromises, letting go of the control and the ego. It is surely a challenge for any kind of magician, because the effort of devotion is unusually high within the feminine divine.

Emotionally driven deities such as Lilith, Naamah, Agrat bat Mahlat and Eisheth Zenunim are good consorts for the empath, because they can easily empathize – and often fall in love – with that kind of abilities. And they have a morbid fascination of something they are not used to in their general approach to humans, which can even surprise them immensely, and to some extent even scare them.

Other female, and male deities that are within the emotional current is considered a good companion for the empath, just because they often understand and can relate to the daily challenges and struggles an empath have throughout their lives.

Being An Empath Isn’t Easy


I always considered myself an empath, and had a few run-ins with strangers with some bizarre sensory occurrences to it. To actually feel others emotions and at the same time see how the peripheral vision changes from color to grey around that specific person, or how their eyes is revealing something about them. Something they don’t even have to say out loud. It comes with a fascinating, and a scary revelation of the fragile mind of a human.

The challenging part is to take distance from the negative flow of the emotional currents surrounding me. Reading the news of wars and violence is a challenge in itself, because it raises these questions of “how” and “why”, and the emotional currents gets unbalanced rather quickly.

Depression and being an empath is often drawn as a common denominator, and a few of us do get caught into the currents of others emotions, without finding something to balance it out. I also think that depression is more common with empaths that isn’t aware of their gifts and abilities, so they end up thinking it’s their own emotions, rather than from someone else.

We’re all have gifts and abilities within us and no matter what our gifts are, we should use it for the benefits of helping ourselves and others.

How we perceive the spirits

How do we perceive and interact with our beloved spirits? It’s a common question that few practitioners explain to the beginners. Generally speaking, there’s a huge lack of explanations within the path of magic and spirits on a daily basis. It has become a trial and error in learning things by experience, and most of us do share the experience to others but rarely get to the point of sharing the functionality of the abilities we’ve learned over the years. Isn’t that unfortunate? It’s pretty simple to explain things in our own little ways, without it being stated as “facts”. We can call it Alternative Facts and get away with it, because it’s nothing political about it. It’s a personal interpretation of things, which have a possibility to be verified by others. To know how to perceive spirits, you have to know of the different abilities to do so. These abilities are within the Clear Sensory Perception, and it’s six different abilities connected to our regular perceptions.

The Clear Sensory Perception have these six abilities:

Clairvoyance – The ability to see.

Clairaudience – The ability to hear.

Clairsentience – The ability to touch and feel vibrations and energies.

Claircognizance – The ability to understand and knowing of information, but without knowing of how and why.

Clairsalience – The ability to smell what others can’t smell.

Clairgustance – The ability of tasting without eating.

Some of these abilities are better connected in advantage of another ability, and the most flexible one is, as I see it, Clairsentience. That ability is aligned to the smell, taste and vision with much easier and faster access than any other ability to use as a starting point for accessing your other abilities.

If you can touch and feel vibrations of energies, you can also see energies. And if you can see the shape of energies, the spirit can easily show it’s visual representation before your eyes.

When all the senses are connected to each other, it’s easier to use the strongest sense to your advantage to learn to use a “weaker” sense.

So, what chakra is connected to the Clairsentience ability? The head chakra. I even made a drawing to explain how my ladies opened up my ability to physically sense and feel them, as well as sensing energies and seeing it.


It’s a pretty basic drawing, but it shows the flexibility of the Clairsentience ability, and it does much more than the other five senses. And when we deal with entities such as the succubus and the incubus, it’s an essential ability to have. I mean, what’s the point to try to interact with a spirit or an entity that is dependent on physical interaction, without a recipient to verify it? It wouldn’t make sense, would it?

The more you practice, the less is the effort to progression, and the less you practice, the more effort it takes to make changes. Does it makes sense to you? For me, it makes totally sense.

The emotional current is a powerful tool, and the more you’re into it, the more charged up it becomes. When you are caught up in the current of Lust, by charging it up with sex, the energy from that will go back and forth from the succubus to yourself. It’s very similar to the electrical current of AC where it changes it’s polarities back and forth:


…but the charged up energy from the sexual activity can’t be stored for too long within you and the succubus, so it has to go elsewhere. It fills up the area around you, starting with the bed, the floor and the walls until the entire room is stacked up with the currents of Lust. If someone else were in that same room, they might get caught into the current.

At this moment, you are so charged up that it makes it easier for you to do a conscious awaken form of astral travel, just by the energies itself.

There’s so much to learn, when it comes to the Clear Sensory Perception, and once you learnt one ability, you will discover the layers behind it.

Spirits And Politics

Is spirits really into politics? I think so, and I’m gonna do my best to explain why I think so.

Working with spirits for nearly 6 years, have given me some insights of their societal structure and their hierarchical system, which might explain the reason for effective or ineffective magical results for us magicians. To explain this thoroughly, I have to put up a hierarchical ladder and political decisions that’s taken from each ladder, starting from the top.

Kings And Queens


It’s not, necessarily, the highest position on the ladder but certainly amongst the top. The Goetic Kings and independent Kings and Queens of different pantheons have great knowledge of several or specific areas which they can aid us magicians within our paths to ascendance. They are less into politics than we might think, because the closer the target is, the more into politics it becomes. But the closer the relationship is with these Kings and Queens, the more involved they become in making decisions.

Prince’s, Dukes and Marquis – The Nobles

I prefer to call these kind of spirits for The Nobles in the hierarchical ladder, because of their closeness to the Kings and Queens. Their knowledge span several areas, and like the top ladder, the better relationship you have with them, the more into politics they are.


Ancestors, Guardians, Guides and Spirit Spouses – The Diplomatists and Negotiators

Why is curses sometimes unsuccessful? Why did the demon doing your bidding, failed? Because of politics within the hierarchical ranks, and negotiations on the behalf of the targets own spirits, guardians, guides or spirit spouses. As I see it, and experienced, spirits doesn’t always win their wars, and doesn’t always reach their targets.

Just like a hostage situation, a negotiator steps in to set a “deal” with the bad guys, and our own spirits can interrupt other spirits with a similar method. They could make a deal that’s beneficial on both sides, making the threat disappear.

Within a hierarchical system, politics is inevitable. That doesn’t mean it’s similar to human politics in the way they use it, but it’s there nonetheless. That’s how I see this.


Scrying With The Ganzfeld Effect Method

The Ganzfeld Effect was discovered in the 1930’s as a method to receive a hallucination without any use of drugs. What it basically does is to stimulate your brain to find patterns by covering your eyes, or to simple put a light pressure on your visual sense. What it means, is that your brain finds patterns through unstructured stimuli, to make up for what you can’t visually see. This method is a good practice if you want to learn how to visually see spirits, energies and the astral plane. You only need three things to try this out: Something to cover your eyes, bright light with an optional red light for even better result and binaural sound through headphones.

Covering Your Eyes


To get the best results from this method, is to use a ping pong ball that’s cut in half. You put each half on your eyes, without letting any light in from the sides. You should lay on your back with a lightsource directed to your eyes and binaural sound through your headphones, and things will gradually happen in 10-15 minutes with your eyes fully OPEN and fixated at the bulb of the ping pong balls.

Alternatively, you can also use a baking paper to cover your eyes, by cutting it like a sleeping mask. Or you could use your hands by putting your thumb and pointfinger together, making a circle to give a light pressure on your eyes.

What To Expect

The result from this method can vary from one person to another, but the most common experience of this method is to see different colors, faces, environments, different mythological entities, the feeling of flying, voices and even touches.

It worked successfully for me. Will it work for you?

Spirit Knowledge – More Than Meets The Eye

If you think a spirits knowledge of a certain area is “limiting”, maybe you should think again. To master a specific category, you need to master the layer behind the main category, and the layer behind the previous layer, until you master the basic foundation of it. It’s just like a complex puzzle, with hundreds or thousands of pieces to build to make it to a beautiful picture. And each piece of puzzle is a knowledge to better understand the main knowledge a spirit have mastered to completion. And if a single piece of puzzle is missing, the knowledge isn’t fully mastered.

Putting The Pieces Together



Do you think a succubus or an incubus is a simple entity because it’s known as a sexual being? Think again. Why are these kind of entities so good when it comes to sex and intimacy? Let me explain how they master the art of sex and intimacy.

Mastering Psychology


The biggest sexual organ is the brain, not the genitalia. And for a spirit to understand the deepest urges and desires of a human, they need to understand human psychology. Emotions is a catalyst that drives us and motivates us, and just like us, a succubus and an incubus is driven by emotions. That makes them viable and adaptable beyond the sexual pleasures they can give us. They certainly knows how to comfort us when life is harsh, or motivate us to get the courage to move on to the right track in our path. Lust is the catalyst to arouse us to sexual climax, but to reach the climax within the pleasure of sex, they need to master something else. Something beyond our minds.

Mastering Physiology


For a spirit to fully understand the human body, it needs to fully understand the human brain. Our brain is connected to the nervous system which make us able to sense and feel physical interaction. And if a spirit doesn’t understand the function of the nervous system, we would not be able to sense and feel them physically. Which basically means that they have to aid us in opening our senses first, to comprehend them when they touches us. They have to open our head chakra as a first and foremost means to be able to take things to the physical plane. And you can’t master sex and intimacy without mastering physiology.

When mastering physiology it definitely helps when it comes to healing, because the physical comprehension of a human to sense a spirit, takes healing to a whole other level. Pressure combined with heat or cold, often takes the physical pain away. Acupuncture is an effective method that succubus and incubus are very skillful at. And the more we feel, the better they get.

The Knowledge Beyond

The spirit knowledge of the physical and mental plane is, as I see it, the basic ladder of interaction. Their knowledge is like an expandable string that inevitable leads to a knowledge that are connected to pretty much everything. To get to the top of the pyramid, you have to start from the ground, and you can’t climb up until you master one level at a time.


The Building Of The Demon-Self

Having a relationship with spirits and entities sometimes comes with benefits of becoming one of them. It is a transformation of your spirit and soul, rather than a transformation of your physical appearance, and it is preferable to have the ability to sense and feel energies to understand the concept and the actual changes of your spiritual body. These kind of experiences comes in different phases, very similar to building a tall skyscraper.

First Phase – The Foundation


The first phase, for me, was to get used to the dark currents of the energy, which basically means that the spirits manifest in their darker spectrum. Getting used to the presence of darkness is essential to understand it and to accept it as a part of something bigger. That means the darkness is passive and benevolent within the presence, with no intentions to feed off of fear or other negative emotions connected to that current.

Fusing the core and commencing the first sod


With the ability to sense and feel, the process can be very graphic in nature and I was fully conscious and awake during the whole experience. The very first step was to “remove” my left eye – which seems to be connected to the core essence of the soul – and once it was removed, a compact energycurrent sipped out of my eyesocket. After a little while, that energy current went back into the socket and my eye was put back into place.

The next step of the first phase was a blood transfusion from Lilith, and it appeared as a sharp cut on my left heal with some kind of cord attached to the cut. A pulsating stream of blood went into me, and it was like an adrenalin rush that put me in ecstasy the moment I felt it in my body. It was so intense that it’s hard to explain the sensations from it.

The last step of the first phase was the transformation of my spiritual appearance and manifestation. If you ever read the book, or seen the movies of Mary Shelly’s Frankenstein, I can say the experience was pretty similar to that.

Second Phase – Building The Structure

This part of the demonic construction is extensive. My “succubus” laid the foundation of the demonic appearance of my spirit, starting with the horns. Using a sharpened tool similar to a scalpel, she cut open the upper sides of my forehead. Then she fused the horns to my forehead at the cuts on the sides. I felt an enormous heat where she put the horns, and she started to shape them like it was clay. To make sure the process worked as intended, she held my horns with her hands and pulled them back and forth. They were solid as a rock.

Once that was done, she started with my tail, and like the horns, it was fused to my tailbone. The tail were partly sewed to place, and the final stitches was removed with an enormous heat. And to make sure it was put to place correctly, she pulled my tail and asked me to move it by thought. I put my thought to it and saw my tail as an extension of my body, and it moved accordingly.

The construction of my wings was a complicated process. An extensive long cut at the back of the scapula bones were made by my “succubus”. The wings were, basically, stitched to place and an extensive heat was building up on the inside of my scapula bones. The stitches was manually removed, once the wings got functional. As this was a “construct”, the wings had a bat like appearance and feel to it.

There were also changes of my eyes, my teeths, my nose, my ears and my legs. But these parts are considered “minor” in comparison to the other three changes.

Third Phase – The Finishing Touches

Lilith continued the work my “succubus” started, by re-modelling the created parts to her liking. The biggest changes were made on the wings. She changed them completely and put feathers on them, and made them bigger.

The last work was made by an unknown deity, and the energy from it was very powerful. The process was the same as my “succubus” and Lilith, but with slightly more adjustments to the added body parts.

This process lasted for several weeks, so it’s hard to write every single detail of it. I know I left out a few things, just because it would be too long to read. The important parts of this experience is there.

Disclaimer: My experience doesn’t represent “truth” or a “fact” of any kind, but it represents my interpretations of it.

Why setting boundaries is important when sharing experiences

When sharing experiences, some people feel the need to explore and find validation to others experiences. Maybe out of curiosity, or as a remark of their own abilities. Personally, I find validation of the experience as something comfortable and relaxing, as long as it’s within peripherals of an allowance to do so.

The problems can occur when someone take the freedom of exploring others experiences without agreement or permission to do so, because the boundaries of privacy is broken. And when the information is a little more than you know yourself, or haven’t found out yet, for reasons the spirits you work with might find it irrelevant or that you’re not ready to attain, it could be devastating.

The result of a non-agreement exploration of others experience, can create:

* Doubts
* Depression
* Conflicts
* Low self-esteem

In contrast, a permitted exploration have the benefit of strengthen your experiences with positive emotional results, because you will get:

* Validation
* Understanding
* Clarity
* Confidence

Even if the intentions is not to make any harm by exploring others experiences, the result of it can be devastating if it’s done without asking for permission to do so.

I have an example where the permission was partially there, but the person took liberty of digging too deep and used dogmatic views and at the same time used the result of doubts to her advantage. The result took over a year to repair, and luckily the guy have re-established his connection to his spirit again.

To get your experiences validated by others is, sometimes, strengthening. But always, always ask for permission of doing so first. Even if the intention is good and for validation only, the result of it can be devastating.

Letter Of Intent – How To Summon A Succubus/Incubus

I’ve been given some thought about doing a post about this for some time now, and here it is. Spirits and entities under the influence of Lilith, Naamah, Agrat bat Mahlat or Eisheth Zenunim can be in the darker aspect within their appearance. Reading about others experiences of these entities it seems like an uncommon manifestation, but it should be considered a noticed “warning” in case that happens. The “warning” is more of a consideration to be prepared, rather than abort the event and flee with fear. The darker aspect of these spirits is, as I see it, a trial of enduring and actually have a purpose to it with a possible outcome of bonding with these kind of entities. Of those four Queens, Lilith is the attention of your letter.

Before you grabbing your pen and paper, read the section below.

Conflicts And Disturbance

Working with other spirits or entities while summoning a “succubus”/”incubus” or of similar type, isn’t always a good idea. Depending on what you wrote on the letter – your own choices and intentions – and the personality of the spirit and it’s own choice of starting a relationship with you, a conflict may rise against your other spirits. Some people might call that “jealousy”, but I disagree.

Intimate spirits, like “succubus”/”incubus” is often deeply dedicated towards their partner, and that means they can aid you on your own spiritual growth. When other spirits are in their way, the energetic disturbance make ascended workings very hard to do. Rivalry can grow and the summoner becomes an “attention territory” between the spirits, just like a ragdoll tug-of-war between children. That often ends bad for the ragdoll, with limbs and cotton all over the place. That’s why you really have to be certain of your choice and banish other spirits before summoning a “succubus”/”incubus”. Like always, there’s exceptions were it works well between all spirits involved, too.

Preparation Of Your Letter

This part of the preparation is of importance. The purpose of writing a letter is to make your intent known to Lilith. It has to been thorough and well thought of, for the matchmaking of a succubus/incubus to work to your liking. You better ask yourself:

* What personality should she/he have? For example: Loving, protective, sensitive, honest, loyal etc.
* Do you want a short term sexual experience?
* Do you want a serious romantic relationship? (It is as serious as it ever could be, and shouldn’t been taken lightly. You have to be certain before making these kind of commitments.)

When you are certain of what you want, you start writing your letter by signing the words “To Lilith” at the top. Then write your wishes of how you want one of her daughters/sons personality to be, for better matchmaking. Again, you have to be certain of your wishes. Done? Let’s continue!

The Ritual

The optimal time to do the ritual is at You need a candle of any choice to be next to your Letter Of Intent. Before you burn the letter you speak to Lilith, either out loud or by thought. You always have to pay your highest RESPECT to her, when you speak:

Lilith, please receive this offering. I give this truthfully and willingly.

After you said these words, burn the letter with your candle, without folding it. When the paper still burns, you say:

May the light of this candle burn brightly and guide your daughter/son to me.

Let the candle burn for 30 minutes. Relax and clear your mind for a while.

The Aftermath

Focus and paying attention is important at this stage, as I see it. Usually it begins with some touches and a sexual arousal. For some people it works shortly after the ritual is completed, but for others it can take days before something happening. The first time you notice the touches and a possible arousal, it is important to acknowledge the presence by respectfully give a “thank you” to her/him, and ask any curious visitors to leave in peace. After your acknowledgement, BLOW OUT THE CANDLE and go to bed.

You have to keep in mind that these entities and spirits have dualism behavior, just like us. There is both light and darkness in their energies and sometimes their darker spectrum is present. I see that presence as a part of an initiation, just before the bonding occurs.

Since reading this far, are you still fascinated? Have you made a choice? Are you certain of this? If you are, then your in for a fascinating adventure.

Here is a video, based on my version of the Letter Evocation Ritual. I think it is a good idea with another perspective and an auditory explanation of this ritual.

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Communication – The importance of physical energies

Bodylanguage, in the human world, takes around 70% of how we communicate with eachother. When we communicate with our spirits, the most common way to go, isn’t the physical energies. Instead we’re talk about the visual and the audible. To see and to hear. In my world, that’s very limiting. You use either 15-30% of your actual capabilities when just using those abilities. I’m not saying that it’s a bad ability to hear or to see the spirits, but to rely on it entirely does not improve the communicative aspect in any form of relationship. In the long run, visual and audible communication have the fallacy of getting shallow over time. But if these two common ways of communications co-operate with the physical energies, it will give a more solid ground to interpret the messages we receive from the spirits.

With the ability to feel and sense energies and it’s different manifestations, you can learn much more from it, than with the ability to hear and see. And it is just a valid source for communication like the other two, with the biggest difference that it has much more layers to it.

With the physical energy, you can learn how to:

* Physically interact with a spirit

* Interpret the bodylanguage of a spirit

* Shared consciousness, emotional communication

* Astral travel with physical awareness while being fully conscious and awake

* Experience “visual imprints” of the physical energy/manifestation

* Feel and sense gifts from the spirits

* Be connected to any form of manifestation from the spirits, including dark and divine currents of their energies

* Understand the mechanics and functionality of energies

If you are connected to their energies, you are a more active part of the spirit world, much more than if you just are able to hear or see them.


A year of “spreading the word”

Time really flies by. I haven’t written in here for over a year now. I’ve just been busy last year, getting to know other people with experiences of spirits, entities and demons. Despite these highly experienced people, few if any, knows about “succubus” spirits and just as few knows about physical energies. Either that, or they just don’t share it as openly as I try to do.

This basically means that I’ve been busy over a year now, trying to spread the positive words about “succubus” out there. The interest of “succubus” and “incubus” spirits have been very positive, and quite a lot of the practitioners of magic have asked questions about these spirits. Spreading the word have been a positive experience for me, because these people are just as openminded as we are in our little community here on WordPress.

My relationship with my two ladies is just as strong as it’s always been. It’s been quite challenging in my job over the past year, but I was never alone with these struggles. It’s comforting that way, having two wonderful, loving and caring wives by my side.

It’s been over 5 years now. Time really flies.